Reality VS Fantasy

FANTASY: "I can memorize 300 terms in just 10 mins."
REALITY: "You spend 5 or even a day to memorize all the terms."




FANTASY: "I can sing like Charice Pempengco!" 
REALITY: "Oh, i'm out of tune."


FANTASY: "This place/room is BEAUTIFUL. Lucky i got this so cheap."
REALITY: "Yeah. I know. That's why it's cheap"


FANTASY: "I'll be there in a second--teleport."
REALITY: "I'm stuck in traffic. UGhh."


FANTASY: “I’d like to be paid a million pesos in my first job"
REALITY: "Php 16,000.00"


FANTASY: "I want to stop the time."
REALITY: "The world keeps spinning."

FANTASY: "Yes. He likes me :)."

REALITY:  " He's committed and in love."

FANTASY: "Breathe(24hrs) under the sea."

REALITY:"Drowned then Dies.........."

Fantasies are too good to be true. And when for one moment we feel that it really happened. That one moment is... DREAM.

Strings on Guitars

My guitars has six strings attached to them

Each of those represents my love for her

Always plucked and strum in my dream

And hoping , no things will make it dim

Low E, are hardships we’ve been

ENDURING the pain we are in

G, are the sulk we felt and fought

GROOVING with the music we ought

B, are times we‘re far from each other
BEING lonely, can’t join the laughter
D, are days we are together smiling
DATES we are on, like we’re playing

A, are sweet moments we shared upon
I ADORE you, brings melody to my only one
High E, is the future ahead of us
EVERLASTING love just like millions of fuzz

Told ‘ya, rhythm of these strings
Can’t be compared to all things
She’s the one that my heart beats
‘Coz my love for her is like the myths

-FRITZ

i'm so lucky to have you.

5 TRICKS TO DEALING WITH TACTLESS PEOPLE

1. Breathe before reacting. If someone annoys you mercilessly and you jump the gun and react right away, you may end up regretting your counterattack. When someones gives you an insensitive comment, pause for a minute, count to five, and try to get a sense of clarity and calm.

2. PUT YOURSELF IN HER PLACE. Ask yourself this: How would you want someone to react to you if you accidentally and non-maliciously say something tactless to her? That comment may have been insensitive, but does it really warrant a big fight?

3. Keep RESPECT in the picture. You may be the victim of a tactless tita or an unsympathetic teacher, but these people are still authority figures. If you're going to retort, make sure to stay as respectful as possible. Either keep quiet and smile, or defend yourself with a one-liner that does not insult them.

4. Count on wit. If your annoying peer keeps slinging verbal punches at you, have a slew of witty comebacks prepared just to keep her on her toes. Instead of being angry, come back at her with irony, sarcasm, and snark.

5. MOVE ON. There's nothing wrong with feeling angry. Get mad if you don't have to, but dont hold grudges and learn to let go. Don't let a tactles, careless comment ruin your entire day!

Candymag


This guide will support you in dealing with ME. HAHA. Just Kidding. I thought this might help. :)

AMAZING TANAY

Tanay is a "First Class Municipality located in Rizal Province, PH.




 Me and my friends chose Daranak Falls which is located in Tanay, Rizal as a potential eco-tourism site


It's fun and exciting! Thanks to Manong Driver, our so-called guide, he's so generous and helpful. OKAY. Going to DARANAK FALLS is not that easy. 

It was kinda slippery so we must be careful or we might slid down.






NO WORDS CAN EXPRESS HOW FULFILLING and EXCITING going to Daranak Falls IS.

                                

       Feeling good-- sweats are GONE.

Nothing beats having friends like THEM.

Hunger Attacks!

I want to eat!

Chili con carne Pizza     Tiramisu   Lemon Bars       Mango Fool         Sherbet Salad          Pasta      Lasagna         Stir-fried beef    Tuna steak        Chicken Fingers

Ahh! My bad. I dont know how to control myself when it comes to eating. I <3 foods and i think they love me too. NO WONDER, i'm not fit.

Why am i fat? Because i eat too much. Why do i eat too much? Because hunger attacks me.  What if i don't eat? Let's see.. :)

Right attitude never goes out of style

Being Respectful
Say "po" and "opo" to elders, including your household help, the village security guard, and those who serve you lunch at the canteen. When you feel like you're about to have a brat attack, hold it right there. Think of the possible consequences your words or actions might create.


Being Honest
Unless absolutely necessary, stick to the truth all the times. But be careful not to confuse honesty with tactlessness.


Being kind
Go easy for the nasty comments. Sometimes, being over critical of others exposes HIDDEN INSECURITIES.


Being Patient
Don't throw tantrums when the waiter takes forever to give your order. Even if you're entitled to good service, it doesnt give you license to stomp your feet and be mean.


Being Generous
Do not wait for Christmas or a special occasion to feel the spirit of giving.

Rain, rain, go away :D

Many people doesn’t want heavy rainy days and nights because of many reasons like they can’t go out without getting haggard, no night-outs, crops are destroyed, no cellphone signals, no internets, can’t play outside, in short it is SO BORING. You know what I mean, right? Being at home sucks at times, just watching tv programs, listening to musics, and stare at yourself ALL DAY LOOOOONNNGGGGG with nothing to do. Yep, it’s super boring inside the house.

And oh! It’s a lucky day today because it is raining today >:O. Just sitting all day and texting, I’m so bored this day! I think that it will be a REST day today. Luckily, I have lots of time creating this post. Yet on the positive side, raining isn’t bad after all. I will have time for my family. Having a time together, just like in the old days when there are no internets etc. Ahhhhh! Good times… Reminiscing through the days that have passed with your younger years I felt a lil younger and have the feeling of relief. Sometimes, I just want my younger days to come back but the reality, we can’t make the time to stop or rewind.

Life is not like a cassette tape that you can replay to the part you want, Life is always on moving forward, taking any obstacles you might run into, eventhough it looks like impossible to achieve, you must move on and take the challenge. Just like what happened on a year ago when Ondoy gets the life of many people, ruining their lives, destroying what we worked for and taking what we have. Many people learned from what had happened. You can’t bring back the time. We are just living in the present time, so make a wise decision on how you will run your life, maybe in the future, you will regret something that you should have done long ago. Life, also like the rain, is always followed by the sunshine. 

Complaining is hardwork

Complaining is hard work-- absolutely!

"I hate my Prof!"    

"She's not good in teaching."    

"That terror Professor is such a $%#^&&!" 

"This food chain is no good. I want my money back."

"Shut up! you're too noisy."

"These assignments are so hard. I bet nobody can do this."

I guess that’s some awful words many of us hear always when something gets on our nerves. I know people keeps complaining on how they hate their looks, their works, their schools, their professors etc. and we keep on complaining and complaining and complaining all over again. Well, I just thought, what's good about complaining to stuffs?!? Well, some of us will say that it’s only a form expressing themselves or whatsoever (“HELLO?!?, freedom of expression, remember???). Yeah, it’s just a freedom of expression but look on the other side of the story, do you think that you are not hurting anybody? Even though they are not hearing what you say? Let’s look up to this, when somebody complains about you, are you not hurt? Well, maybe not, if you are numb enough. Going back to the topic, ofcourse, you will be hurt, right? The bottomline is if we are going to COMPLAIN, let's bring it up with ACTION. Don't just complain, do something. It might help others in solving solutions-ONLY IF it’s taken with action. In every situation complaining hasn't given you any closer to what you want things to be. You might spend an hour to explain every detail on what is wrong but afterwards, you tend to feel blank and flat.

Some of the tips when you have complaints:


+Discuss it with someone who can listen to you in a nice manner(don't yell-you can hurt others' feelings). Letting it out if done correctly may be a good thing.


+Let's think. YES. When we are mad, our emotions are filled with anger at times but we must stay CALM and besides learning to control your feelings can keep you strong. Deep breathing might HELP.


+Try to understand people (personalities, bad service, attitudes) if you want people to understand you too.


+SMILE :)


"If one is satisfied with things, one doesn't complain about the downsides that exist, either.”
Georg Henrik Von Wright

Where does my help go???

How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.  By Anne Frank

Helping as we all know is a good thing we share for the others. It may be a step to know other person more or as others always do, just to share what God had given to them. On the other hand, as I walk down the streets going home, I noticed some beggars on the streets asking for foods and money. After that some questions just pops out of my mind asking, where did these beggars spending their money? How come they can dye their hairs despite of their status? How come they didn’t help themselves to rise from being just a beggar? Does the money I will give them will do any good for them? Do these people need money or need some assistance to help them up? It might confuse you a little on helping some beggars on the streets but from my point, it always depends on the person on what they want to be. Simply speaking, if a person is just lying around in the streets asking for money didn’t find his way to be on a success why would we help him? Ofcourse, not all of the people are like that, it also DEPENDS on the situation whether the beggar is in real help because he didn’t finish any studies at all, or being an orphan, not by being a failure of what they tend to be on.

Helping a person doesn’t mean you did something good for him, it ALWAYS DEPENDS on the person whom you are trying to give your help on….